Proof of Love

Hey there world,today is one of those days when I have things on my mind that I have to share.And I start with a Question to you all.Have you ever been in love?Not lust,not the kind of just wanting to get laid,have fun,and forget that person kind of love that lasts a night or a few days.But the kind of Love that you would change your life for that person love.The kind of Love that fills a void in your soul.The kind were you would run to them when they called,because they found a spare moment in there day to be with you kind of love.The kind were you wait for hours just to spend a few minutes in the warmth of there eyes,and comforted by there voice.Sheltered from the drama of the day to day reality of the world by them putting there arms around you.The kind of Love that will make you forsake all others and anything just to have that person hold you and tell you that they love you.The kind of Love that will make a man like me,mister ruff around the edges find his inner romantic side.The kind of Love that feels your dreams with the thoughts of your future together and all your hopes of children and a family.Love with unbridled Passion...........Yes,That is what I would call a true Love......................Then in this time of your deepest Love.The person you are in Love with and who is in Love with you starts to find excuses for not calling,not spending time with you,not being there for you as you have for them.And the words I Love You are used as just a way of ending a phone conversation and not with the passion of the way they used to use them toward you.They have just become words again.You are lost,confused,and alone again.And your heart is so heavy.You search for answers to your hearts questions so as to understand what you have done so wrong as to loose this Love that you had.And the last person that a man would ever want to go to ask for help is the person with the most honest answer.Your Mother,the one who you never wanted to talk to about this all till you were bringing this Love of yours to meet her to get her blessing to marry this new Love of yours.And your Mother in her simple way only asks you to ask yourself this one question..........Name one thing that your Love has done to prove her Love to you,just one sacrifice that this person you have done so much for and would do so much more for has ever done in the time you have been together ,for you ,to prove there undieing Love and Devotion to you.Name the sacrifice that they have made for Love.